I'm not in love with my husband anymore....help!?

The "love" or buzz that you feel as a teenager won't last forever (even if you were w/ Brad Pitt or Tom Cruise). Part of the hoax in our society and other societies is that going out together to movies, having dinners together do very little to prepare us with the everyday problems of paying bills, dirty diapers and not getting along. Get some counseling preferably from a psychiatrist (a kind of M.D.) or a psychologist. Try to go together. If he won't go, then go by yourself. I ume that you married him bc you loved him so trying to save your marriage is worth it. In the meantime, you can try to plan some time together. A movie, a walk in the park together, dinner in a restaurant. If he hurts your feelings, tell him calmly that he did and that as husband and wife, the two of you need to take care of each other. The psychiatrist cannot solve all of your problems, but he/she can help you organize your thoughts. I favor a psychiatrist bc as an M.D., he or she might be able to find out medical reasons for why you might feel bad (if there are medical reasons). Good luck and be kind to yourself.